Where is time – in less than 24 days till Christmas?
Are you ready for it? Because I’m not! Going home for the Holidays! Meaning heading to Montreal! It’s a long drive and hope weather will hold until we make there. I told my family I didn’t want gifts, because I said my gift this year is me coming home. Was I wrong for saying that I don’t know. We are all adults and in my heart it’s about sharing time together with the people you love. We are making it a 2-day trip because even though I’m working will go about 4 hours or until we get tired and stop at the hotel along the way. The Only ones I will miss this year again are my brothers. I miss sharing time with Frank and Lynn and their beautiful family that have grown so much. Time goes by so fast and I cannot believe that they are all adults now. But they will or are always in my thoughts and my heart. My other brother lives too far away so my chances of seeing him are slim, but I will see his children and I’m excited to see them, it has been years I haven’t. Also, all grown up!
Looking back, I realized have I made the right choice, for not having children. You can’t regret what your choices are, but the older you get you realized what you might have missed out of. Family, either it’s good or bad, embrace the moments you spend with them because one day you might turn around and realized what you missed out on. SAYING I LOVE YOU can be scary as shit if you weren’t brough up that way. A hug means everything also so take the time this year and say to someone I love you and hug them, because you don’t know what life as in store for you.
So Tell me what are you plans for the Holiday and if you are ready for it?
Love you all and have a safe December
Brenda
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